The summer vacations in May-June were always my favorite as I got to spend the entire two months at my grandparents’ house (Palace in my daughters’ lingo) in Kerala.
Thank God that neither the World Wide Web nor WhatsApp nor Email were launched back then. I didn’t have my head tied to a phone, tablet, or laptop all day long and doing homework that did no good to anyone I have ever known. We lived and breathed freely in independent India and learned all about real life without the pressure of having to excel always and outshine everyone else.
Day time meant roaming around the house all alone, collecting all things possible. Or walking hand in hand with the elders of the house visiting the local Shiva temple, the one or two little grocery shops known as ‘Chaaya Peedika’ or walking the long stretches of the paddy fields and supervising the workers. A Devaki, Kaali or Shankaran would ask me if I was enjoying my time at my grandparents and what they were treating me with.
Even the humble telephone and electricity had not reached the quaint little village of Cherukattupulam till about early 90s. Life was peaceful. No fear of missing out on what’s happening with the Kardashians or why one hasn’t yet seen Virat and Anushka’s duaghter. No FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) at all.
If you ask me, the brain was a cleaner space. There was no clutter and ample time to grow and develop natural creativity.
The lonely walks in the backyard, meeting all forms of life from a millipede to the King Cobra, I am one lucky little remenant of an era you missed living through.
Remember the lesson ‘Apna Kaam Swayam Karo’ from the Hindi NCERT text of Class 3? My fascination around birds and their lives started from there.
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I bought a feeder a few years back. Experimented with various seeds. No bird came. Not a single one. The pigeons couldn’t manage staying on the tiny feeder. The Mynas preferred hunting worms to having free lunches. The parrots only cared about a Guava or some peas or sunflower seeds.
Then, I found the fox millet. I refilles the feeder with it. Patience was the key. Two three weeks down the road and there was one tiny little bird that chirped more than it ate. One. Two. Three. Four. Five. Six. And then I lost count. Mrs. and Mr. Munia had arrived with their flock. Few weeks, and they had literally accepted the space as.theirs. My constant companion while spreading the clothes on the terrace.
I started keeping a small bowl with the seeds at the Window of Hope. Soon, the Munias flocked there.
Her nest is the cleanest, happiest, and most peaceful place I have ever seen. Her family seems like one big fat celebration every day.
She visits my window often to check if I have refilled the feeder with fresh fox millets. Then she spreads the word and the Chachas, Taus, Buas, Mamas, Maasis and ‘woh door ke rishte waale’ Nanaji, Phufaji and possibly her entire neighbourhood ever flocks together to the feeder and celebrates.
I observe them enviously as Mr.Munia and Mrs. Munia kept a watch, and their entire Tabbar feasted on the seeds. Why?
If I die today, I don’t think there will be many people to attend the funeral or to support my mourning family. Leave death. If I announce a gathering right now, there will be countable people who will attend and half of whom would be doing it just to gather information on my life or to find fault with the hospitality. And look at Mrs. and Mr. Munia. They had such a happening family. An entire neighborhood. Such a strong support system.
Mrs. Munia looks through the window pane and sighs. What a lavish house this woman has and what a grand life she is living. No fear of an enemy attacking from unannounced corners. No fear of running out of food for the family. Such a splendid life, she wonders.
I sigh back. Such a rich lady with such a magnanimous family.